Is it OK to lie about your age?
Christopher Snyder
Updated on March 16, 2026
You can say anything you want, they reason, because you shouldn't have been asked the question in the first place. Lying about one's age is considered socially acceptable, as is declaring the fact that your age is nobody's business.
What happens if you lie about your age on?
If a minor lies about his or her age online, the minor will likely face no repercussions. However, adults who engage in sex acts with minors who have lied about their age can still be liable for a sex crime.Is it a crime to lie about your age?
Is lying about your age illegal? Generally, lying about your age when signing up for a social media account online is not illegal. As a result, a minor who does so is unlikely to face any criminal charges. However, lying about your age online may violate the website's Terms of Service.Is lying about your age a big deal?
It's one thing to lie about yourself in a harmless chat room. But those who lie about their age online for the purpose of committing sex crimes can expect to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law – this can mean lengthy jail time and entry into sex offender registries.What to Do When You lied about your age?
The best you can do now is, tell the truth - apologize for not telling him sooner, and try to explain why you did not tell the truth. He might appreciate you coming clean - but don't be surprised if he thinks you are superficial - since you don't like how men your age look.Hey Steve: Is It OK to Lie about Your Age?
How do I tell my boyfriend my real age?
Greet your boyfriend with a warm hug and get straight to the point. Start by saying something to show how much you love him, such as "You are the kindest/most honest/most caring person I know, so I am sorry that I have lied to you." Apologize for being dishonest about your age and tell him how old you actually are.Is it OK to lie about your age on dating sites?
There is nothing wrong with targeting people of a certain age but lying about is wrong and can even get you kicked off dating sites and apps (if you see someone lying about their age you should flag their profile).What's an excuse for lying about your age?
Reasons folks lie about their age include:So I just lie.” “I lie about my age because I like talking to older women. None of them take me seriously when they know exactly how much younger I am then them.” “I lie about my age because I hate others my age so much I don't want others to judge me because of it.”
How do you respond when someone asks your age?
A few suggestions:
- Say politely but as if confused: “Why do you want to know that?”
- Laugh and say: “Old enough to know better than to answer that question.”
- Say “How old do you think I am? ...
- Say what we did as kids: “Same age as last year but a year older.”
- Pretend you didn't hear.
- Say nothing and stare at them blankly.